well Lee I guess i could have made a comment, but it's so much easier to talk in person about these things, so to take up so much space on your blog, well i didnt' want to.....i think this would make a great time to make a time to get together, you know what i mean??? Then we can discuss things further...ok so your house? dinner you say?? oh great, J and I love steak so that will work great....( : What all you said was right on, could not have put it better myself....i did however laugh at the gossiping lady entry.....but i'm struck by the fact that you autimatically assumed a gossiper was a LADY? Now come on, men do to! So this would have been my entry...."could you ever hug a gossiping person while he/she mourns the death of their gossiping friend?" There now i made my comment...happy?? you should be. i'll be awaiting your call...dont make me wait long.